Appreciation can make a day - even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary.
I have learned over these past few years as I have recovered from heart failure, numerous surgeries, a few stays in a medical rehab facility how great the people we so often overlook really are. It seems sometimes that too many of us spend so much time finding fault that we don’t spend time appreciating those who serve folks like you and me.
I know that my physical therapists and health care workers have been responsible for much of my wellbeing. Besides what they have done for me physically they have taught me to notice and be grateful for their kindness. Once we learn to notice the good folks we encounter in our lives we find it easy to thank them for what they do. I also have found that when I let people know I appreciate them they often become a new friend.
Here is a story in the same vein that I really like, I hope you will too.
Author: Chris Gregory
Recently I was put in a nursing home to recover from a critically ill ailment. For the first time in my life I was totally dependent on others. I just lay there in the bed being pumped with antibiotics and fluids. It gave me a lot of time to reflect and slowly I become aware of my surroundings.
Over the course of a few days I started to really appreciate the housekeeper. She was an elderly lady who didn’t speak English. Every morning at 6:30 she would try to sneak into my room quietly so she wouldn’t disturb me. However, on every occasion I would awake and see her. She would try to apologize and at the same time gave this amazing smile. It got that I would be just waiting to see her come in and give that wonderful smile.
I found out from one of the nurses that there was an employee rewards program. I asked the nurse to write an appreciation card for my housekeeper. I wrote: “Thank you for your incredible smile every morning. It fills the room with happiness and makes every day worth living.”
When the nurse put the card up another nurse came into my room about ten minutes later and asked if I had written that card for the housekeeper. I said yes and asked if it was okay. The nurse said that I had to know that the housekeeper was out in the hall crying her eyes out.
Had I done something wrong or inappropriate? Then the nurse went on to tell me that the housekeeper had worked there for thirty years and had never received a rewards card. It hit me like a ton of bricks. Just a few simple words made such a difference. It was beautiful! If you think she smiled before you should have seen her the next day.
From that day forward I tried to recognize someone every day for the good things they showed. The results were amazing. People came in with smiles, they talked more, they laughed more, they enjoyed life more. The side effects were astounding. It seems the more I tried to recognize others the better I got.
I’m out of the nursing home now and almost fully recovered.
I thank my housekeeper for helping me see just how incredibly beautiful life is.
Do yourself a favor and tell your loved ones just how much they mean to you. It can make the world of difference with both them and you.
I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought; and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.
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A couple is lying in bed. The man says, "I am going to make you the happiest woman in the world" The woman says, "I'll miss you..."
Little Johnny was having problems in English class, so his teacher decided to stop by on her way home to speak with his parents. When she rang the bell, Little Johnny opened the door. The teacher said, "Hello, Johnny. I would like to talk to your mother or your father."
Little Johnny said, "Sorry, but they ain't here."
The teacher said, "Johnny, what is it with your grammar?"
"Beats me," said Little Johnny, "but dad sure was mad that they had t'go bail her out again."
Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
A little girl was sitting on her daddy's lap. She gazed up at her father and said, "Daddy, did anyone ever tell you that you're the most wonderful and smartest man in the world?"
Her father, filled with pride said, "Why no, honey, they haven't."
"Then where did you get the idea?" She asked.
If you want to test your memory, try to recall what you were worrying about one year ago today.
She said: Co-workers sympathized as my mother, Claire, complained that her back was really sore from moving furniture.
"Claire, dear, why didn't you wait 'till your husband got home?" someone asked.
"I suppose I could of...." my mother told the group, "but, the couch is easier to move if he's not on it
Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.
Stay well, do good work, and have fun.
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