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Don’t become something just because someone else wants you to, or because it’s easy; you won’t be happy. You have to do what you really, really, really, really want to do, even if it scares the shit out of you.

Kristen Wiig

I had lunch with a longtime friend yesterday who was distraught because so many people were telling her that she needed to decide precisely what she wanted to do with her life. She had almost convinced herself that she was failing because she was not happy with what others wanted her to do. I was shocked that these folks had taken her to the point where she was questioning her own worth.

Now this is really a good person with a big heart who is researching where she might be able to do herself and others the most good. She has been unhappy in the past working in roles that required her to do things that were of little value and often even against her principles. That notwithstanding people were actually telling her she should search for more of the same, you see their definition of success and hers were different, they valued others by what they received in income and title and she believed that success comes from the value of the work.

Thankfully her discomfort was so high that she rebelled and decided it was her life, her dreams and her responsibility. I am so glad that she has decided not to be like most everyone else but rather to be someone special, her own unique self. It is our differences that make us great not our sameness. I like the following poem, I hope you do too.



In all the world, there is no one exactly like me.

There are persons who have some parts like me,

But no one adds up exactly like me.

Therefore, everything that comes out of me

Is authentically mine because I alone choose it.


I own everything about me

My body, including everything it does;

My mind, including all its thoughts and ideas;

My eyes, including the images of all they behold;

My feelings, whatever they may be...

Anger, joy, frustration, love, disappointment, excitement

My mouth, and all the words that come out of it

Polite, sweet or rough, correct or incorrect;

My voice, loud or soft.

And all my actions, whether they be to others or to myself.


I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears.

I own all my triumphs and successes,

All my failures and mistakes.


Because I own all of me I can become intimately acquainted with me.

By doing so I can love me and be friendly with me in all parts.

I can then make it possible for all of me to work in my best interests.


I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me,

And other aspects that I do not know.

But as long as I am friendly and loving to myself,

I can courageously and hopefully, look for solutions to the puzzles

And for ways to find out more about me.


However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think

And feel at a given moment in time is me.

This is authentic and represents where I am in that moment in time.


When I review later how I looked and sounded, what I said and did,

And how I thought and felt, some parts may turn out to be unfitting.

I can discard that which is unfitting, and keep that which proved fitting,

And invent something new for that which I discarded.


I can see, hear, feel, think, say and do.

I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive,

And to make sense and order out of the world of people

And things outside of me.

I own me, and therefore I can engineer me.


I am me and I am okay.

Virginia Satir


Note: Tomorrow is a national holiday in the US so I am letting everyone off for the day so no Daily will be published


Flying to Los Angeles from San Francisco the other day, a passenger noticed that the "Fasten Seat Belts" sign was kept lit during the whole journey although the flight was a particularly smooth one. Just before landing, he asked the stewardess about it.

"Well," she explained, "up front there are 17 University of California girls going to Los Angeles for the weekend.

In back, there are 25 Navy enlistees.


Poverty: Having too much month left at the end of the money.


There was an old man named Bill, and one of the things he most enjoyed was playing golf with his old buddy Fred. Bill's wife always commented on how happy he looked after a game.

But one day he came home from their weekly game looking terrible and very tired. His wife asked, "What's the matter, Bill? You always seem so happy after golf and you look miserable right now."

Bill said, "Well, something terrible happened. Fred had a heart attack on the first hole."

"My God, honey!" said the wife, rushing to comfort him. "That must've been terrible!"

"It was," he said. "All day long it was: hit the ball, drag Fred to the ball, and then hit it again..."


There are three signs of old age. The first is your loss of memory, the other two I forget.


A man hasn't been feeling well, so he goes to his doctor for a complete checkup. Afterward, the doctor comes out with the results.

"I'm afraid I have some very bad news," the doctor says. "You're dying, and you don't have much time left."

"Oh, that's terrible!" says the man. "Give it to me straight, Doc. How long have I got?"

"Ten," the doctor says sadly.

"Ten?" the man asks. "Ten what? Months? Weeks? What?!"



Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you.

Author Unknown


Stay well, do good work, and have fun.


Ray Mitchell

Indianapolis, Indiana

Management is not responsible for duplicates from previous dailies. The editor is somewhat senile.


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